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, what women want in a mate
Have you ever wondered what in the world your wife really wants from you? It’s not always what you think it is. She doesn’t need a lot of money (although it might help) and she doesn’t expect you to be perfect.
The things she is looking for are really quite simple.
The biggest thing a wife wants is a sense of security. She just wants to feel protected and safe. That’s not to say she is looking for a lot of brawn or money to. Knowing that no matter what happens everything will be ok is all she really wants. Life is not always easy, but having someone who protects you and keeps you safe is important to weathering the storms for women.
Women do not want to be taken for granted. They want to be appreciated and valued. Show her you care and enjoy being with her. She wants to feel beautiful, needed and wanted.
Communication is key to all relationships. Don’t lie. This might seem like a no-brainer but not everyone understands this. Lying is destructive and creates trust issues. Women do not like to be deceived.
Another thing women want in a marriage is structure, not control. She just wants to be able to depend on you. You are building a life together and she needs to trust that you will do what you said you would do.
Last but not least, a little public display of affection is always appreciated. Hold her hand, give her a hug kiss her when she least expects it. If done consistently you will be grateful for the results it will yield.
When we were kids we learned the golden rule “Do unto others as you would have them do unto you”. Simply put treat others as you wish to be treated. This is a must for any marriage and that is really what your wife wants.